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Shobha Ramswamy
Saathi, a
non-governmental organisation supported by the Sir Ratan
Tata Trust, has arranged happy homecomings for numerous
lost and runaway children
The long-distance train pulls into Mumbai Central station.
As passengers scramble towards the exit, a teenager
with a red knapsack catches Basavraj Utthnu's attention.
Seemingly alone, the boy fishes out a tiny notepad from
his bag and hesitantly approaches a coolie. Intuitively,
Utthnu walks towards the boy and strikes up a conversation.
His name is Manik Mondal, he's 15 years old and he has
come from Burdwan, West Bengal, to meet his elder brother,
who works in a hotel somewhere in the sprawling metropolis.
Young Manik does not have his
brother's complete address, has no money and speaks
only Bengali. Fortunately for him, help is at hand.
Utthnu immediately puts him at ease and assures him
that he is not alone. He also calls for a Bengali translator
so that the boy is reassured about his safety and his
hopes of being united with his brother soon.
"It is all in a day's work,"
says Utthnu, an officer with the Raichur-based Sathi,
or the Society for Assisting Children in Difficult Situations.
Sathi helps runaway or lost children find their way
home. Established in 1992, the organisation's objective
is to keep children away from railway platforms by providing
them with food and shelter.
Rarely do children realise the
dangers that await the lone and lost on railway platforms.
Generally, these children are confused, scared, insecure
and uncomfortable in their new surroundings. Often,
they may be found crying and huddled together in dark
corners of the platform, unsure of what to do next.
Even children who have run away from home sometimes
lose their nerve.
Their vulnerability leads them
to trust anyone who tries to befriend them. These 'friends'
often morph into brokers for prostitutes or networks
of beggars and child labourers. The desperate call of
hunger forces these kids to take recourse to begging
or sweeping trains. The more enterprising ones begin
to sell newspapers, mineral water, etc, or they learn
a trade, such as shining shoes. Sometimes they earn
upwards of Rs 100 every day. But the constant threat
of addictions to alcohol or drugs, apart from the fear
of being swept into the world of crime, makes them deeply
vulnerable. Caught in this web, the child's innocence
is lost forever.
On an average, at least five
children find their way to a big Indian railway station
every day. Runaway boys far exceed girls (around five
in a month). The reason for leaving home could vary
from failing in a school test to fearing punishment
for stealing money from parents or guardians. School-related
issues are the most common excuses, but a large number
of children come to the metros in search of jobs that
can enable them to escape the harsh poverty of their
villages. Some run away to become film stars, while
others are attracted to the glitz and glamour associated
with cities like Mumbai.
Connecting the length and breadth
of India, trains are the easiest mode of transport for
these children. "Railways give the child the freedom
to alight and depart at will," says Pramod Kulkarni,
secretary and founder of Sathi. "In fact, in a
year a runaway can travel the whole of this country.
That is why we operate only on the platforms; they are
our first point of contact with the child."
Officers of the organisation
patrol the platforms of Mumbai's two biggest stations
(Mumbai Central and CST), Wadi, Guntakal, Mantralaya,
Pune and Raichur. Over the years Sathi has united over
3,400 children with their families back home. A recent
survey revealed that 82 per cent of the children who
were sent home have made no second attempt to run away.
"Surprisingly, even after spending years on the
platform, the child yearns to go home," says Mr
Kulkarni. "Truly, there is no place like home."
Conventional wisdom has it that
a runaway is either an orphan or comes from a broken
or neglected home. Shattering the myth, Kulkarni explains
that in almost 80 per cent of the cases the child has
both parents alive and comes from a regular home. "Exceptions
do exist. But they are few and far between." Another
busted myth is that only children from poor homes run
away. In truth, about 30 per cent of runaway children
come from educated, well-to-do homes.
Sathi's job isn't simply a matter
of asking children for addresses and sending them back.
Kids are known to lie or give incomplete addresses.
In such cases the officer takes the child to Sathi's
shelter, a remand home or a police station (in the absence
of the first two). At the shelter or remand home, the
child is not bombarded with questions. "We chat,
play and relax with the child. The aim is to win the
child's trust," says Vidya Dhende, superintendent
of the Pune remand home.
The parents are informed through
phone calls or telegrams. Occasionally, an errant child
is personally escorted home by a staff member and a
police constable. R. S. Kondalkar, inspector, Pune Railway
Police Station, has high regard for the work that Sathi
does. "There is a very thin line dividing the good
from the bad on the platforms. In this context, Sathi's
work assumes great importance."
Sathi spends almost Rs 2,000
to send a child home. To promote initiatives to educate
out-of-school children, the Sir Ratan Tata Trust supports
Sathi in its efforts to advise runaways to return home.
The Trust has been partnering the organisation since
1996 and contributes over 50 per cent of its annual
budget.
Every large city has its
own number of runaway or lost children. Ideally, Sathi
needs to expand to all metro railway stations. Towards
this end, it has started partnering other non-governmental
organisations like Yuva, Childline and the Don Bosco
charity, among others, to bring about a synergy of efforts.
As Mr Kulkarni says, "Every child needs to be at
home."
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in March 2005
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